Rent help when you are raising children on your own
Raising children on one income is hard even when nothing goes wrong. When the rent is due and the money is not there, it can feel like everything is at risk at once.
This page covers rent help for single mothers. It explains which programs are built for families with children, and how the programs that serve everyone else fit into the picture.
For the full range of programs open to any renter who qualifies, see the NHPB guide to rent assistance programs. The focus here is on what changes when you have kids at home.
What is true about rent programs and single mothers
Most rent assistance is based on income and need, not on whether a parent is single. A church fund or a county program will usually help any household that qualifies, including yours.
Being a mother still changes the picture in real ways. Some charities work only with families that have children. Cash aid from the government goes mostly to households with kids, and emergency shelters for families are separate from shelters for single adults.
A smaller group of programs exists just for mothers raising children alone. This page walks through those first, then the wider options.
Charities built around mothers and families
Bridge of Hope works with families facing homelessness, most of them led by single mothers. It is a long program rather than a quick payment. Families spend many months, often a year or more, working with a case manager while a group of trained volunteers supports them.
During that time the program pays part of the rent, with the family taking on more of the cost as their income grows. To take part, a mother needs at least one child under eighteen at home and a willingness to work toward steady employment. The program is not an emergency fund and does not offer same-day rent money.
Local churches supply many of the volunteers, but the organization states that faith and church attendance are not requirements. Bridge of Hope operates in a limited number of communities, and a family applies through the location that serves their area. The locations and the inquiry form are on the Bridge of Hope Get Help page at https://bridgeofhopeinc.org/get-help/.
Family Promise is a network of local groups that shelter and support families with children, and only families with children. Depending on the location, help may include a place to stay, homelessness prevention, and assistance moving into a new home. Find how it works in the NHPB guide to Family Promise programs for struggling people.
The Salvation Army and Catholic Charities both serve families with children as a core part of their work, though neither limits help to single mothers. Rent help at each location depends on local funding, so it is worth asking what is available for families that week. Details are in the NHPB guide to Salvation Army programs that help and the NHPB guide to Catholic Charities assistance programs.
Housing tied to going back to school
Jeremiah Program supports single mothers who are working toward a college degree. At some of its campuses, that support includes an apartment where rent is set as a share of the mother's income, along with child care on site.
The program runs in a small number of cities, and requirements vary by campus, including the ages of children it can serve with details at https://jeremiahprogram.org/. A mother applies directly through the organization, and there can be a wait.
Government help where children are the reason the program exists
The Family Unification Program is a federal housing voucher for families in one specific situation. It serves parents whose children are at risk of going into foster care mainly because the family lacks adequate housing, or whose children cannot come home from foster care for that same reason.
A family cannot apply on its own. The local child welfare agency refers the family to the housing authority, which then handles the voucher, so a mother already working with a caseworker can ask that person about it directly.
Not every housing authority runs the program. The details at at https://www.hud.gov/helping-americans/housing-choice-vouchers-family, and the list of housing authorities that may are on the HUD Family Unification Program page at https://www.hud.gov/contactus/public-housing-contacts.
Cash assistance through Temporary Assistance for Needy Families goes almost entirely to households with children, which makes it one of the few benefits where being a parent is the point. The money can go toward rent. Each state runs its own version under its own name, and the NHPB guide to government help for single mothers with no income explains how to apply.
Housing choice vouchers, often called Section 8, serve many families with children, though waiting lists are long in most places. A mother can apply and stay on the list while using other help in the meantime. The application process is covered in the NHPB guide to Section 8 housing.
Cities, counties, and local community action agencies run emergency rent funds that serve anyone who qualifies. Some set aside money for households with children, so ask that question on every call. The NHPB guide to local rent assistance explains how to find the office for your area
If you and your children need a place to stay right now
Family shelters take mothers together with their children, and they are separate from shelters for single adults. Space changes daily, so calling early in the day helps. The NHPB guide to homeless shelters covers how to find one.
Some agencies may place a parent and their children into a motel for a few nights when shelters are full. The NHPB guide to free motel and hotel vouchers explains who offers this and how to ask.
A mother leaving a violent partner can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 at any hour. Advocates there can connect her and her children to safe housing in her area.
Other ways to lower your housing costs
Some apartments cost little or nothing for a family with very little income, though most run through a program with an application and a wait. The NHPB guide to free housing for single mothers covers where that housing comes from, including emergency programs, charity-run units, and vouchers.
Sharing a home with another mother splits the rent and the utility bills, and it puts a second adult in the house. Arrangements like this need real care when children are involved, and the shared housing for single mothers guide covers the safe ways to set one up, from homeshare programs that accept single parents to two mothers running one household.
A different kind of help pays one-time costs instead of the monthly rent. The help with paying a security deposit guide covers money for a deposit or the first month in a new place, and for money that never has to be paid back, the NHPB guide to grants for single moms lists the government and charity programs that may offer it.
Applying, and staying safe while you do
Most programs ask for the same paperwork: photo ID, the lease, proof of income, and any late notice from the landlord. Having copies ready speeds up every application.
No real assistance program charges a fee to apply or promises guaranteed rent money. Anyone who asks for an upfront payment, a gift card, or your benefits card in exchange for rent help is running a scam, and the right answer is to hang up.
A mother who is pregnant can find additional support in the NHPB guide to assistance for pregnant women. For money problems beyond the rent, the NHPB guide to financial help for single moms covers food, bills, and more.
Start with one program today, even if it is only a phone call. Ask each one the same question: what do you have for a family with children. Keep a note of who you called and what they said, since funding opens and closes through the year.
Program rules, funding, and locations change through the year. Confirm details directly with each organization or government office before counting on any assistance described here.
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