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Re: Struggling to pay bills in Atlantic City and need help

Posted: Sun Feb 23, 2025 11:42 am
by Admin - Jon McNamara
CarDon13 wrote: Sun Feb 23, 2025 10:21 am I live in Atlantic City, New Jersey. As of Oct 23rd my life was threatened. I lived in a Domestic Violence 33-year relationship. It included my kids Violence and my ex-husband. He threatened to burn me up alive after spitting sputum in my face for the 5th time that evening after I was held with his fist in my face until 5am. I finally called the police, and they removed him for 1- night. The locks I paid to change, he disregarded and kicked in 3- doors and again beat my head in all night. The next night I called the police, they removed him. He stalked me as I healed from 2- sprains in my ankles and hands after being thrown down 8 steps by this maniac. Then to top it off he kicked into 3 doors and tore a wall down to get to me. My home damaged to 25,000. I got a temp restraint order. Then I spent every dime I had as he fought me, and I had a full-blown trial.
For 1 year. I finally got the restraint permanently but now I am trying to re- build my life. I’m struggling and I’m in need of help. I am a nurse that was capable of helping myself. I’m so far behind that I can’t keep up. I just was able to return to work , but the bills are coming quicker than I can pay them . He destroyed my credit; I’m applying through home savor to save my home. I’m begging you to please help me to just find Resources to help me get a foot up.
On my life. I can be a success story if given a chance. Please - I’m trying to live a life without fear and pain. I’m a good person that needs to re-build. Thank you - Evelyn
Hi Evelyn
Sounds so terrible, and so glad you are now safe. As far as places in Atlantic City for help, there are options. Here is out main list of Atlantic County financial assistance programs.

Also, here is a list of regional services for women that faced/are facing abuse. https://jbws.org/

Struggling to pay bills in Atlantic City and need help

Posted: Sun Feb 23, 2025 10:21 am
by CarDon13
I live in Atlantic City, New Jersey. As of Oct 23rd my life was threatened. I lived in a Domestic Violence 33-year relationship. It included my kids Violence and my ex-husband. He threatened to burn me up alive after spitting sputum in my face for the 5th time that evening after I was held with his fist in my face until 5am. I finally called the police, and they removed him for 1- night. The locks I paid to change, he disregarded and kicked in 3- doors and again beat my head in all night. The next night I called the police, they removed him. He stalked me as I healed from 2- sprains in my ankles and hands after being thrown down 8 steps by this maniac. Then to top it off he kicked into 3 doors and tore a wall down to get to me. My home damaged to 25,000. I got a temp restraint order. Then I spent every dime I had as he fought me, and I had a full-blown trial.
For 1 year. I finally got the restraint permanently but now I am trying to re- build my life. I’m struggling and I’m in need of help. I am a nurse that was capable of helping myself. I’m so far behind that I can’t keep up. I just was able to return to work , but the bills are coming quicker than I can pay them . He destroyed my credit; I’m applying through home savor to save my home. I’m begging you to please help me to just find Resources to help me get a foot up.
On my life. I can be a success story if given a chance. Please - I’m trying to live a life without fear and pain. I’m a good person that needs to re-build. Thank you - Evelyn