Re: Huge debt loan
Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2026 6:22 am
Hi, my name is Ashley Hardin and I'm a 34-year-old single mother of 3 but 3 months ago my ex-husband won custody of our 9-year-old son broody. I couldn't afford an attorney and he could. He won because he’s more financially stable but he’s the reason my sons and I are in this mess and I am way in debt and I needed to take out personal loans. After a 10-year marriage where I put up with a lot of bad things and in the end, he got everything he wanted and the kids and I were left with nothing but bills, medical debt and struggles. It's a long, sad story which I can talk about later.
So now it's just me and 2 of my sons. I've worked full time these past 2 years of being single after 10 years of being a stay-at-home mother. I love working and supporting my family, but I never make enough and I'm currently looking for a second part-time job and have an interview Tuesday night after work, and I'm signed up for paid outpatient clinical trials.
I just paid rent $875 using a loan and I've been broke these past 3 months because when my ex won custody of our son, I was ordered to pay 250 every month to him for child support and the 500 a month I used to get from him is gone so now I'm losing 750 dollars each month that I used to have and it has hurt my family SOOO much. I’m behind on all my bills and have huge loans due as well as credit card and desperate for help. My credit is in the 400 because I have so much medical debt and I'll never be able to buy a home, and I don’t know where to turn or what to do.
When I start my second job, I'll never see my kids besides in the morning when I get them off to school and when I come in late from work. I pray a lot and I rely on God because he’s all we have. If you can’t help doing you know who can? Thank you.
So now it's just me and 2 of my sons. I've worked full time these past 2 years of being single after 10 years of being a stay-at-home mother. I love working and supporting my family, but I never make enough and I'm currently looking for a second part-time job and have an interview Tuesday night after work, and I'm signed up for paid outpatient clinical trials.
I just paid rent $875 using a loan and I've been broke these past 3 months because when my ex won custody of our son, I was ordered to pay 250 every month to him for child support and the 500 a month I used to get from him is gone so now I'm losing 750 dollars each month that I used to have and it has hurt my family SOOO much. I’m behind on all my bills and have huge loans due as well as credit card and desperate for help. My credit is in the 400 because I have so much medical debt and I'll never be able to buy a home, and I don’t know where to turn or what to do.
When I start my second job, I'll never see my kids besides in the morning when I get them off to school and when I come in late from work. I pray a lot and I rely on God because he’s all we have. If you can’t help doing you know who can? Thank you.