Needhelppayingbills

Hi Jessica
Great you are trying to help your boyfriend get a job and want to be self-sufficient. There are some job centers in Lee County with CareerSource Southwest Florida being the main one - link here https://careersourcesouthwestflorida.com/
As far as the other advice and support you need (around transportation, financial help, etc.) try the Lee County Community Services listed here https://www.needhelppayingbills.com/htm ... _prog.html

Sarisk wrote: ↑Fri Nov 14, 2025 1:04 pm My name is Jessica, and I need some kind of help, advice or list of resources that actually pertains to my situation. Less than a year ago I was working at the same job for three years, renting a house, had two cars and supported my boyfriend and three kids. In the blink of an eye, I lost my car, the house and had to move back to my boyfriend's mom's house with my family. My boyfriend blames me for everything and continues to tell me every day. I tell him we both contributed and if he would have helped bring in some kind of income things would have worked. He thinks he was owed money from me to work for watching his children. I can't keep trying to help him when I have my own problems and he doesn't respect me. Is there a program to help him become self-sufficient, do his own job applications and get some mental health treatment? I am trying to find employment but am six months pregnant. I am 6 miles from the closet bus at his mom's and his truck needs repairs which we have no money for. The arguing was getting out of control around the kids, so I had to leave and stayed with a friend. I can take the bus now but don't have money for passes. I need to see my kids without any comments from their dad. I took care of everything at home with the kids, so this is killing me. Is there a way to help him fix his truck and get him help with employment? If we can't get some help or advice, then our family is going to fall apart. I tried to get the kids and I in a shelter but never had a ride. Please let me know what we can do to either save my family or at least give my children the stable environment they need. Jessica
Lee County, FL

My name is Jessica, and I need some kind of help, advice or list of resources that actually pertains to my situation. Less than a year ago I was working at the same job for three years, renting a house, had two cars and supported my boyfriend and three kids. In the blink of an eye, I lost my car, the house and had to move back to my boyfriend's mom's house with my family. My boyfriend blames me for everything and continues to tell me every day. I tell him we both contributed and if he would have helped bring in some kind of income things would have worked. He thinks he was owed money from me to work for watching his children. I can't keep trying to help him when I have my own problems and he doesn't respect me. Is there a program to help him become self-sufficient, do his own job applications and get some mental health treatment? I am trying to find employment but am six months pregnant. I am 6 miles from the closet bus at his mom's and his truck needs repairs which we have no money for. The arguing was getting out of control around the kids, so I had to leave and stayed with a friend. I can take the bus now but don't have money for passes. I need to see my kids without any comments from their dad. I took care of everything at home with the kids, so this is killing me. Is there a way to help him fix his truck and get him help with employment? If we can't get some help or advice, then our family is going to fall apart. I tried to get the kids and I in a shelter but never had a ride. Please let me know what we can do to either save my family or at least give my children the stable environment they need. Jessica
Lee County, FL

Hi Richard, There are human services to help you with all those bills. https://www.needhelppayingbills.com/htm ... human.html

Dear representative from this program,
I hope this email finds you well. My name is Richard, and I am reaching out in urgent need of assistance. I currently reside in North Fort Myers, Florida (Lee County, ZIP 33917) with my girlfriend. We have been struggling significantly while awaiting my Social Security Disability determination, which has been pending for nearly a year. Unfortunately, all personal support from friends and family has been exhausted, and we are now in a dire financial situation.
I have been unable to work due to severe health issues, including long-term complications from COVID-19 and diabetes, which have made mobility extremely difficult. My last attempt at employment was before I moved to Florida from Valley, Alabama, after my girlfriend’s father passed away. We came here to ensure that his belongings were not further taken amid ongoing probate proceedings.
We receive SNAP benefits, but they do not last the entire month. Additionally, our utilities are at risk of being shut off:
Water bill is past due and may be disconnected soon.
Sewage service has a pending disconnect notice.
Power has already been shut off twice in recent months.
Transportation has also become a major barrier:
My personal vehicle was repossessed.
The 2002 Ford F-150 left from my girlfriend’s father’s estate has been sitting unused for three years and has mechanical issues. I cannot physically assess or repair it myself.
Additionally, Hurricane Ian caused damage to our home, particularly to the flooring and roof, which affects energy efficiency. There is also a broken window that needs repair to prevent further issues, especially with hurricane season approaching.
I am seeking any available resources for utility assistance, food, minor home repairs, or vehicle repair to help us stay afloat until my disability case is approved. If there are organizations or caseworkers who could assist in filing applications for aid, I would greatly appreciate the guidance.
I understand there are many in need, but if there is any help available—whether financial assistance, services, or referrals—I would be truly grateful. Please let me know how I can proceed, and if necessary, I can provide any additional documentation or details you may need.
Thank you for your time and consideration. I truly appreciate any support or direction you can provide.
If you need to reach me by phone please text first because I stopped answering my phone calls because I had so many spam calls from health insurance places in other places that just blows my phone up so I had to stop answering them but if you need to text me or call me if you text me first I will get the message and call you back if that is what is needed for the communication process if not I will leave you my email also thank you for anything that you may be able to help provide

Hi Deanne and person with car issue,
There are some programs in Fort Myers that provide financial help. We doubt for car tires, but maybe they have referrals or other ideas for you. As some organizations may offer help with bills. There are also clinics for Deanne and much more in the area. Locate help with bills in Fort Myers.

I need help with new tires for my car, as well as repairs due to an accident and also my auto loan. Also, the car in question, is a 2013 Chevy Equinox that I cannot afford to insure. As a result my license has been suspended and I am not able to renew my tags which means I am falling behind on my bills.
I am actively seeking employment and my minor son has a job at a fast food restaurant to try to make money to pay the bills and get food. We share the car but I'm terrified that the car will break down or blow a tire and cause personal injury.
I live in Fort Myers. I'm a single mother, my son's father has been deceased since 2022. I currently receive temporary rental and utility assistance from Our Florida. Additionally we receive food stamps and Medicaid.
Any auto assistance to help us would be greatly appreciated.

My name is Deanne, and I live in Fort Myers, FL. I am on SSDI. My check pays for rent, utilities, internet. I would, appreciate rental assistance. Can you please send me information on what grants are available for all this bills? I also need dental clinics in Fort Myers that offer fee fillings, extractions, and cleaning services. I would appreciate information about necessary programs and how to apply.
Thank you for your time and help.
Deanne