Threats from ex
Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2019 6:28 am
VICTIM:
My ex-husband, and I have tried to remain friends, through difficult times, and we try to help each other as much as we can. He is on SSDI, and has a mental disability and is now threatening me; and I am on SS and have a physical disability; we are both seniors.
He moved into a rental place, with a roommateapproximately 45 days ago, at Jacksonville FL, 32254-1915. His rent was due and was paid for on the 3rd of the month, at $280 per month, and he has receipts to prove it.
Everything he owns was at that house, including new Christmas things I bought for him for his place (and gave to him early; I have receipts), all his food from the recent Hurricane Irma DCF relief fund, for $370 (he spent $310 of it; but normally receives only $16 a month in food stamps. I took him to the store and he stocked up). That morning, he just bought more food, $70 in tobacco and papers to roll his own cigarettes, and he had his 2 rolling machines too, etc.
When I took him back home to his rental on Friday, 6-4-19, to pay rent, his roommate had broken into his room and stole some of his things the roommate took the air conditioner out of his window to get in. Their neighbor, "Hank", saw him do it. "Hank" told him that the girl said, "He locked himself out"; which was a blatant lie!) He called the police, at approximately 3:00 PM, but when they came out, they said they couldn't do anything about it, and his roommate was not there at that point. (He called me, and I turned my car around, and went back to try to help him and lend moral support; after I had already dropped him off once, after he bought his cigarettes and more food when we were out, plus going to Community First Credit Union, to withdraw money for November's Rent, as Talmadge wanted to be paid in cash.)
About 10 minutes later his roommate showed up and just went completely berserk! He threatened to kill him and he was locked in his bedroom. He took his things, that were outside his room (in the kitchen and dining area), and started throwing them outside to the curb, making sure he broke anything he could, while he danced crazily, laughed, and sang right in front of my car. I felt so helpless to do anything (I have a physical disability, so I couldn't even try to retrieve any of Charlie's things either. I was also concerned that the roommate would attack me.). At one point, Talmadge was singing out that he was going to kill me, too. He and I both called the police numerous times, told them what Talmadge was doing, that we just found out that he smokes weed heavily, and that he threatened to kill both of us; they did not show up for over one hour and 15 minutes! Meanwhile, Talmadge was trashing all his things!)
The roommate broke his bedroom door down. He proceeded to take his 32" color tv, smashed it to pieces in the front yard, then pulled his * out, publicly exposed himself, and urinated all over the tv, while neighbors, him and I watched in horror! He drugs everything out of his room and threw it to the curb, in a heaping mess, while smashing and breaking what he could. He and I were both devastated and I was crying.
The police (finally), and the roommate's Father both showed up due the treat from my ex husband. His Father got nowhere with him. He said his Son was off his meds and needed to be Baker Acted to a mental facility. (He also gave Him his number in front of the police; as he owns the house they were living in.). The police, after taking well over an hour to show up even, said Talmadge did not "meet the criteria" for Baker Acting him, while letting him know that it was not safe to stay there. How much more evidence did the police need?! We could not believe our ears! Does someone have to get beaten up or die before they'll take Talmadge?! The police could have prevented all of this from happening to him, who is mentally impaired and a senior, and I am physically impaired and a senior, but they didn't!
I had to find shelter for him for the night (as I live in a senior facility, and could not bring him there). All he has is the clothes on his back now...and that's it; he is so devastated, overwhelmed, traumatized, and inconsolable; he does not know what to do. Everything is gone, including personal papers, memorabilia, electric and hand tools, bed, bedding, pots and pans, his irreplaceable dental tools, $310 plus in food, paper and staple items, new towel sets, small appliances, speakers, clothes, shoes, etc., etc., etc. (We are trying to compile a list for filing charges for Civil Court, as the officers and Talmadge's Father advised.) He is afraid the roommate will try to use his SSN # from his mail and any other important paperwork, documents etc.; as he could not even try to retrieve the rest from his room. (HE doesn't even have an address to forward his mail to, as he is homeless now, and I can't have it here to my senior’s apartment.)
We did not leave the address on until 6:00ish PM! It was too late to get him into a shelter, and we couldn't contact anyone until Monday morning (6-06-19) for help, because offices were closed, since it was Friday night.
(I tried to contact the roommate Belling lea, Sr., by texting him on Saturday morning, 6-04-19. As of Sunday morning, I haven’t received a response.)
Can you please help him as soon as is humanly possible?! I would really appreciate anything you can do to solve this threat from ex, or advice you can give. He just doesn't know what to do, or where to go now. Like I stated before, he only has the clothes on his back now...and is devastated, overwhelmed, traumatized, and inconsolable over all of this. This is just too much for him. (Fortunately, he has an appointment with his Psychiatrist, early Monday afternoon, 7-1-19.
Thank you for your help!
My ex-husband, and I have tried to remain friends, through difficult times, and we try to help each other as much as we can. He is on SSDI, and has a mental disability and is now threatening me; and I am on SS and have a physical disability; we are both seniors.
He moved into a rental place, with a roommateapproximately 45 days ago, at Jacksonville FL, 32254-1915. His rent was due and was paid for on the 3rd of the month, at $280 per month, and he has receipts to prove it.
Everything he owns was at that house, including new Christmas things I bought for him for his place (and gave to him early; I have receipts), all his food from the recent Hurricane Irma DCF relief fund, for $370 (he spent $310 of it; but normally receives only $16 a month in food stamps. I took him to the store and he stocked up). That morning, he just bought more food, $70 in tobacco and papers to roll his own cigarettes, and he had his 2 rolling machines too, etc.
When I took him back home to his rental on Friday, 6-4-19, to pay rent, his roommate had broken into his room and stole some of his things the roommate took the air conditioner out of his window to get in. Their neighbor, "Hank", saw him do it. "Hank" told him that the girl said, "He locked himself out"; which was a blatant lie!) He called the police, at approximately 3:00 PM, but when they came out, they said they couldn't do anything about it, and his roommate was not there at that point. (He called me, and I turned my car around, and went back to try to help him and lend moral support; after I had already dropped him off once, after he bought his cigarettes and more food when we were out, plus going to Community First Credit Union, to withdraw money for November's Rent, as Talmadge wanted to be paid in cash.)
About 10 minutes later his roommate showed up and just went completely berserk! He threatened to kill him and he was locked in his bedroom. He took his things, that were outside his room (in the kitchen and dining area), and started throwing them outside to the curb, making sure he broke anything he could, while he danced crazily, laughed, and sang right in front of my car. I felt so helpless to do anything (I have a physical disability, so I couldn't even try to retrieve any of Charlie's things either. I was also concerned that the roommate would attack me.). At one point, Talmadge was singing out that he was going to kill me, too. He and I both called the police numerous times, told them what Talmadge was doing, that we just found out that he smokes weed heavily, and that he threatened to kill both of us; they did not show up for over one hour and 15 minutes! Meanwhile, Talmadge was trashing all his things!)
The roommate broke his bedroom door down. He proceeded to take his 32" color tv, smashed it to pieces in the front yard, then pulled his * out, publicly exposed himself, and urinated all over the tv, while neighbors, him and I watched in horror! He drugs everything out of his room and threw it to the curb, in a heaping mess, while smashing and breaking what he could. He and I were both devastated and I was crying.
The police (finally), and the roommate's Father both showed up due the treat from my ex husband. His Father got nowhere with him. He said his Son was off his meds and needed to be Baker Acted to a mental facility. (He also gave Him his number in front of the police; as he owns the house they were living in.). The police, after taking well over an hour to show up even, said Talmadge did not "meet the criteria" for Baker Acting him, while letting him know that it was not safe to stay there. How much more evidence did the police need?! We could not believe our ears! Does someone have to get beaten up or die before they'll take Talmadge?! The police could have prevented all of this from happening to him, who is mentally impaired and a senior, and I am physically impaired and a senior, but they didn't!
I had to find shelter for him for the night (as I live in a senior facility, and could not bring him there). All he has is the clothes on his back now...and that's it; he is so devastated, overwhelmed, traumatized, and inconsolable; he does not know what to do. Everything is gone, including personal papers, memorabilia, electric and hand tools, bed, bedding, pots and pans, his irreplaceable dental tools, $310 plus in food, paper and staple items, new towel sets, small appliances, speakers, clothes, shoes, etc., etc., etc. (We are trying to compile a list for filing charges for Civil Court, as the officers and Talmadge's Father advised.) He is afraid the roommate will try to use his SSN # from his mail and any other important paperwork, documents etc.; as he could not even try to retrieve the rest from his room. (HE doesn't even have an address to forward his mail to, as he is homeless now, and I can't have it here to my senior’s apartment.)
We did not leave the address on until 6:00ish PM! It was too late to get him into a shelter, and we couldn't contact anyone until Monday morning (6-06-19) for help, because offices were closed, since it was Friday night.
(I tried to contact the roommate Belling lea, Sr., by texting him on Saturday morning, 6-04-19. As of Sunday morning, I haven’t received a response.)
Can you please help him as soon as is humanly possible?! I would really appreciate anything you can do to solve this threat from ex, or advice you can give. He just doesn't know what to do, or where to go now. Like I stated before, he only has the clothes on his back now...and is devastated, overwhelmed, traumatized, and inconsolable over all of this. This is just too much for him. (Fortunately, he has an appointment with his Psychiatrist, early Monday afternoon, 7-1-19.
Thank you for your help!