All advice welcome
Posted: Fri Dec 20, 2019 9:47 pm
Thank you for reading this email, as I know how busy you all must hcbe. I wish everyone a Merry Christmas I’m a federal employee w/state sponsorship. I’ve been working in the social/human services field for over 26 years. I’m completely out of all options & have no sibling/family alive to ask for help. I’ve been a single parent for over 10 years after my daughter's father passed away. I’ve always been able to make things work, but now at the age of 52 I have found that there is no one I can depend on for anything... i.e. repairs, help etc.
I have been w/out a car for 2 months. Now dealing w/a shop who has totally damaged the vehicle & I have no way to even open the hood latch. Nov 26, 2019 an Emergency situation also dealt to me. I now have a (1st) New grandson of 3 weeks old & estranged daughter living with me. Double bills [electric, food etc.] and in dire need of a vehicle. I’ve had friends help me get back & forth to work, them to doctor's appointments, grocery etc. But two {2} months later I’ve spent more in gas fees than I would have using my own vehicle. I do Have 2 vehicles that I’d be able to donate, but I no longer have a savings acct to invest more $ in either of them...& neither are running. My 403 cannot be touched, I’ve already modified my house payment & of course my Debt-Ratio is too high to get any assistance w/loan etc. any advice would be a blessing... SOS
I have been w/out a car for 2 months. Now dealing w/a shop who has totally damaged the vehicle & I have no way to even open the hood latch. Nov 26, 2019 an Emergency situation also dealt to me. I now have a (1st) New grandson of 3 weeks old & estranged daughter living with me. Double bills [electric, food etc.] and in dire need of a vehicle. I’ve had friends help me get back & forth to work, them to doctor's appointments, grocery etc. But two {2} months later I’ve spent more in gas fees than I would have using my own vehicle. I do Have 2 vehicles that I’d be able to donate, but I no longer have a savings acct to invest more $ in either of them...& neither are running. My 403 cannot be touched, I’ve already modified my house payment & of course my Debt-Ratio is too high to get any assistance w/loan etc. any advice would be a blessing... SOS